So I am back to blogging. But who am I? Most people think I am strange and wierd. People who have known me well have said I am a bitch. Those who have known me all my life, from the time I came into this world, firmly believe I am a perfect example of failure and will never achieve anything in life.
But it makes no difference to me. I have stopped living according to other people. I am now almost half way through my life and I have spent most of that time following ‘rules’ outlined for me. But then I realized that I needed to live MY life, MY way, without worrying about what others will say or do if I don’t follow those ‘rules’. I need to stop being scared to voice my opinions, to show people their limits, and most importantly, I need to be ‘independent’ in the true sense of the word.
I am known to be extremely rude and arrogant. Well, you know, any woman who is not dependent on a guy, who can live life on her own, and also has an opinion of her own….is a bitch. Well thats me. I don’t depend on anybody. I may not be able to earn a whole lot, but I adjust my life according to my income. I chose not to sell myself (as in sleep with, legally or not) with anybody just for the sake of rising up in the social or professional ladder. I try to do most of my work on my own. I don’t go about playing the weak helpless woman, so that others will step forward to help me. I am honest about my opinion. I simply cannot be a hypocrit. I chose not to have any ‘fair weather friends’. I am glad life has given me the opportunity to find out which of my so-called friends would stand by me when I need them. I make no attempts at pretending to like people. Of course that leaves me with very few ‘friends’. But my experiences have taught me that it is better to have just one friend who I can depend on to be with me in tough times, that have hundreds of ‘friends’ who will back out when there is ‘drama’ in life.
So that is me. I am honest, blunt, and a bitch!
